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July 21, 2008

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Leah

I think the reason for this, is more than likely the gender role confusion in todays society.

Women are expected to and accomplishing what their mother's, and father's both did in their time.

It is a desperate need to feel without having to be in control of the script, for lack of a better analogy.

crackgerbal

Your totally wrong about the gender role confusion thing. I think a more accurate reason why is an evolutionary response. A woman's vagina needs to be lubricated, so any sexual stimulus will cause a "defence" lubrication reaction so as to not incur injury while being raped.

This explains why many women have the fantasy and why seeing other peeople be raped is mentally non arousing even though there may be increased blood flow to the genitals.

Also, It is VERY common for women to have rape fantasies after actually being raped...sadly. This is especially true of the person was raped in their first sexual experience. this particular person may never be turned on to anything but rape in their lives, this is sad.

There is also a difference between a fantasy and reality. Male arousal seems to be one way, if i think it and i like it them i am aroused and attracted to it and want it to happen. While female sexuality is split...if i think it and its arousing it is most likely not something i want to actually happen.

M

What Do Women Want? NYtimes article:
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=6

Page 6 is where the article begins on this topic.

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